【明報專訊】Herbie and Fiona are in love. "We really are," Fiona smiled. I asked if they had set a date for the wedding. "Not yet," Herbie replied. "For the moment we are feeling our way. Marriage is a big step and we want to take our time to make sure of the depth of our love." That sounds wise, for when people feel their way (as Fiona and Herbie are doing) they proceed with great care. This usually applies when someone is in a new situation, place, job, etc. and they are not fully confident of themselves or the situation.