【明報專訊】At some point in your thirties, you are likely to find yourself juggling milk bottles, wedding invitations and funeral arrangements all at once. The coincidence of thrill, hope and grief as a result is not unlike the alignment of planets that brings about the solar and lunar eclipses. It reveals an unfamiliar aspect of life that is both humbling and empowering, both soothing (安慰的) and taxing (費勁的).